Old Friends

 I’ve been in Myrtle Beach since Tuesday evening, a few days late to a yearly get together with some old friends. Golfing is the game that gives the week its official purpose. And when this annual reunion began, more than 20 years ago, most of us were golfing earnestly, sometimes twice a day. But over the years, the spirit of competition and even the enthusiasm for the game itself has waned, along with any hopes any of us ever had of becoming truly good golfers.

What’s left is what we had to begin with. An easy sort of friendship that began for some of us in high school and has continued, against all odds, throughout the years. At times, when I consider what different careers we’ve had, and how dispersed we are geographically, it seems miraculous that we are still connected.

But perhaps that’s the point, the link that ties us still together. Friendship, like marriage, endures only if it’s flexible and forgiving. If we want too much from it, we will likely be disappointed. But if we want too little from it, so little that we don’t at least give it the attention it needs, it will disappear.

What I expect from my friends in terms of companionship is what I expect from them in terms of their golf games. They will play with the same energy, enthusiasm, and good will as they have always played – just as I will… and that will be enough.

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War and Peace in Business:

What Kind of Leader Are You?

A colleague recently sent me an article titled “Peacetime CEO/Wartime CEO.” It was written by Ben Horowitz, cofounder and partner of Andreesen Horowitz, a venture capital firm. The thesis: When a business is mature and growing slowly, it is well served by a CEO that is adept at managing size and stability. But when a business is “facing an imminent existential threat,” it needs an entirely different kind of leader. Someone that is single-minded and tough. Someone willing to make decisions that no one else will.

Horowitz calls the first type a “Peacetime” CEO,” and the second a “Wartime” CEO.

The article was meant to advance a conversation we’ve been having about a company in which we are partners. After decades of growth and a decade of industry dominance, the business is floundering. The first signs of trouble arose two years ago, at which time each of the individual divisions began taking steps to move their businesses back onto solid ground. Since then, we’ve noticed that (1) some of our subsidiaries are faring better than others in regaining profitability, and (2) those that are doing better are being managed very differently than those that continue to struggle.

If Horowitz were advising us, he’d probably tell us to look at our CEOs, figure out whether they are equipped for war or peace, and then give the peacetime CEOs a choice: Change your ways or let someone else take the wheel.

I have my own theory of leadership, which I’ve written about over the years. My idea is that there are two kinds of business leaders: those that are good at growing businesses and those that are good at managing them after they’ve grown. I call the first kind Growers and the second kind Tenders.

Growers are not better than Tenders. Businesses need both. But at different times and in different places. When businesses are young, they need Growers at the helm, with Tenders reporting to them. When businesses are mature, they need Tenders at the helm, with Growers helping them develop newer parts of the business.

Horowitz’s Peacetime CEOs are very similar to my Tenders. They are thoughtful and analytical. They are capable of multitasking. And they love making plans and solving problems. They don’t like making mistakes. And they are careful about what they say. They have these preferences and characteristics because they understand that keeping a mature business running profitably is a huge challenge that requires constant attention to the three Ps: people, protocols, and products.

Wartime CEOs and Growers are also similar. They are goal-oriented and accomplishment-driven. They tend to be narrowly focused. Once they make a decision, they like to move quickly. And they don’t like people second-guessing their decisions and slowing them down. They recognize that problems need to be solved. But they expect their subordinate managers to solve them. They understand that growing a business or saving a struggling one requires extraordinary singularity of purpose. It calls for the CEO to focus almost exclusively on Job Number One. And get it done, whatever the cost.

Steve Jobs is an example. A Type-A personality, he was a natural Grower. And he grew Apple aggressively to an astonishing level of success before he was fired and replaced by someone that was less impulsive and entrepreneurial. His replacement may have fit the bill in terms of the kind of personality Apple’s board was looking for. But he couldn’t keep the company growing. And for a company like Apple, that meant it began to lose its momentum and fall behind. When Jobs was finally asked to return to Apple, he came back as a Wartime CEO, and made the radical changes needed to get Apple back on top.

As for the business I’m writing about, my partners and I have no plans to recruit warriors to replace our peacetime leaders. But we do want to persuade them to put on their helmets and start making tough and decisive decisions like wartime leaders. Here’s how they can do that…

How Peacetime Managers Can Become Wartime Generals 

Dealing with Problems: Peacetime CEOs and Tenders see their primary job as identifying and solving problems. To become more like Wartime CEOs and Growers, they have to severely limit the number of things they are paying attention to. Instead of trying to stay on top of a dozen issues, they need to identify the two or three that will make the greatest difference in accomplishing their primary goal and spend 80% of their time and energy on them. This will undoubtedly create additional problems. But they must resist their impulse to solve those problems and delegate the responsibility to others.

Conflict: Peacetime CEOs and Tenders see their primary job as helping the business run smoothly. And because they see conflicts – whether systemic or personal – as threats to the continued smooth running of the business, they focus on eliminating those conflicts. To become more like Wartime CEOs and Growers, they need to focus, instead, on the two or three things that will bring the business back to profitable growth – and make it clear to every employee that they must be focused on the same thing. They need to emphasize that any problems that might arise have to be resolved by those involved.

Deviation and Creativity: Peacetime CEOs and Tenders allow for, and even encourage, deviations and experiments in order to foment good will and creativity. To become more like Wartime CEOs and Growers, they have to make it clear to their employees that until such time as the business is stable and profitable again, there will be a zero tolerance for deviation from the core plan. “If you want to keep your job,” they must imply, “you will toe the line.”

Team Building and Consensus: Peacetime CEOs and Tenders strive for broad-based buy-in and even consensus. To become more like Wartime CEOs and Growers, they need to explain to the troops that there is no room for anyone that is not enthusiastically with the team. They need to be able to back this up by firing the doubters and laggards. Saving and growing the business doesn’t just matter. It is the only thing that matters.

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To foment – from the Old French fomenter, “to apply a hot compress (to a wound)” – is to encourage or instigate. As I used it, above: “Peacetime CEOs and Tenders allow for, and even encourage, deviations and experiments in order to foment good will and creativity.”

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Uncle Tom: An Oral History of the American Black Conservative 

Release Date: June 19, 2020

Directed by Justin Malone

Written by Ryder Ansell, Larry Elder, and Justin Malone

Available on various streaming services, including Amazon Prime

“If you don’t vote for me, you ain’t Black,” Biden famously said in an interview with radio host Charlamagne Tha God prior to the election.

That represents the view that most liberals and the mainstream media have of Black and Hispanic Americans: The Democratic Party, and only the Democratic Party, represents them.

But that wasn’t always the case. In fact, for most of our country’s history, the Republican Party was the one that was supportive of African Americans. It was the party that brought about abolition, fought against Jim Crow, and established the policies that advanced African Americans economically to a degree that was unthinkable 50 years earlier.

That all changed with Lyndon Johnson and The War on Poverty, and then later with The War on Drugs. Those two Democrat-led initiatives destroyed the Black nuclear family and set in motion a culture of victimhood that is, today, the single biggest threat to the advancement of Black and Hispanic progress in the US.

At least that’s the view of the Black conservatives profiled in this very watchable documentary.

Uncle Tom isn’t a film that attempts to prove this thesis or even debate it. Its purpose is to introduce some of the prominent Black conservatives that are trying to bring Black voters back to the Republican Party, and the Republican Party back to Black voters.

You can watch the trailer here.

And you can watch the entire documentary here.

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The Everyday Patriot: How to Be a Great American Now 

By Tom Morris

138 pages

Published June 29, 2022

This was one of two books the Mules read in September. It’s short. A quick read. And it’s well intentioned. If you are in the mood for a temporary lift in your political or social outlook, this could do the trick. But if you’re looking for something more substantial, you won’t find it here.

The Everyday Patriot is a call to action. Morris is calling on his fellow Americans to do more than simply vote and have political opinions. He wants them to join him and other “daily patriots” – even those with different views – in making America a better place for all. The way you do that he says, is through one thoughtful action at a time.

Morris believes that a citizen’s political duty goes beyond voting and having political opinions. It includes acts of charity or good will every day. If everybody pitched in and did one thing every day, it would make America a better place to live in.

Noting that we are living in a politically and socially divisive country, he calls upon us to reject negativity and embrace the core principals of the founding fathers: life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness… plus equality and justice for all.

A chapter is devoted to defining these terms as they were meant in the Declaration of Independence. He also dips into Aristotle quite a bit, who, he argues, inspired the ideas of the founding fathers.

On the one hand, Morris’s call to action is difficult to criticize. He’s saying, “Come on guys. We’re all Americans. Let’s stop the hating and start being nice to one another.” On the other hand, one can imagine how well this would work in the middle of a riot in Times Square, which is about the actual state of things in America today.

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Re my essay about owning a piano in the Oct. 4 issue 

“We have pianos in both our homes, too, for about the same reason as you do…. Two other items come to mind when I think about what used to make a house a home. The Encyclopedia Britannica and a globe. Later came the NYPL Desk Reference, but that was on the eve of the internet.” – SL

My Response: Yes, you are SO right. We had no money, but we had the hardcovered books and the Britannica and the globe. These were prestige items for anyone that wanted to be seen as well educated in the very suburban communities of Long Island, NY.

You couldn’t tell at arm’s length, but our globe was made of cardboard. But because it was so nicely made, in three dimensions and with all the colors one could imagine, it looked expensive, like an expensive heirloom.

Because of its size (I think there were 24 volumes in the set) and the leather binding, the EB was very expensive. I think my dad bought it on some kind of payment plan. I used it exclusively in college. Thanks for the reminder!

Re my brief about self-checkout machines in the Sept. 30 issue 

“Based on your experience, I think you’ll like this. Click here.” – JD

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