An Embarrassing Answer to a Simple Question

“I know this is a strange question,” JW wrote, “but how do you like to spend your weekends? I’m sure it has changed as you’ve gone through different seasons of life. But how did you handle weekends during your biggest wealth-building years? I feel good about my progress during a typical week, but weekends are my Achilles heel. Since my friends and family are off on weekends, I try to spend more time with them. While the time together is great, I also have a sense of guilt. I don’t get much productive work done. I don’t work out like I do during the week. My nutrition habits go out the window. It feels like I take five steps forward during the week and two steps back on the weekend. Do you have any advice for me?”

My weekends. I wish he hadn’t asked that. The answer is embarrassing.

My longtime partner BB worked non-stop during the week, but then devoted his weekends to building barns and reading scripture. His very unbusinesslike weekends seemed to give him the break he needed from writing and working out business problems and allowed him to exercise his body and different parts of his brain. Monday mornings, he always seemed reenergized.

I can’t say for certain that’s true. I never asked him. In any case, I’ve never had that problem.

I shouldn’t say never.

When I was in my twenties, when my family was young and we lived in DC, I adhered to the work-all-week/ have-fun-on-the-weekend idea. I jampacked our weekend calendar with things to do with the kids. That meant walks in the parks, visits to the zoo and the kids’ museums, going to kid-oriented movies, etc. I thought I was working hard and so I deserved to spend my weekends that way. That was then.

In my early thirties, we moved to South Florida and I began my career as a CEO and an entrepreneur. This made a big difference in my weekend schedule. I still loved “playing” on Saturdays and Sundays. But I realized I couldn’t possibly keep up with my work obligations if I didn’t squeeze in some work on the weekends.

In my early forties, I went harder at my work, and probably regularly worked at least six hours each weekend day. There were weekends I’d work straight through. I never saw NOT working as an option. People depended on me. I had things to do.

At 49, I decided I didn’t need to make any more money and made my second effort at retirement. I vowed that, as a first step, I would stop working on weekends. That lasted about a week. I worked harder in my fifties than I did in my forties.

When I turned 60, I tried to retire again and failed again. I continued to work weekends. Probably five or six hours a day.

Now that I’m in my 70s, I’ve really gotten control of myself. I still work on weekends, but I’ve cut the time dramatically so that I can devote as much time as possible to what matters. Which is never work.

I’m down to about four hours per weekend day. So… what do I do for the rest of the day?

Mostly, what I’m “advised” to do.

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Office Buildings Are Still Half-Empty

More than three years after the COVID Lockdown began and employees began working from home, the sentiment among CEOs about remote working has become increasingly negative. Almost every CEO I know is nudging (if not demanding) employees to resume five-day-a-week office hours. But they are telling me that even their best employees are resisting.

When I wrote about this issue on August 12, I predicted that, except for some obvious jobs that require physical presence (the service industry, retail, and much of manufacturing), most workers would resist going back to the old routine. But employers have been increasing the pressure, offering rewards and penalties – in some cases, making full-time, in-office work mandatory. This last weekend, I had a conversation with one of my nieces and her husband, who work in NYC and are facing this pressure from their employers. They say they are willing to make concessions, but they won’t return to their pre-COVID office hours.

Despite the widespread resistance, the WSJ reports that in mid-September, return-to-office rates were at their highest level since the onset of the pandemic. And yet, office buildings in the city are still half-empty.

It’s too early to know for sure, but I’m still betting that the new get-tough measures will not get more than half of the office desks and cubicles occupied with flesh-and-blood people. Which is why I continue to have confidence in my decision to cancel my plans to build a large office building in my hometown of Delray Beach, Florida.

But there is some good news for office landlords. Click here.

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The Mysterious Math of Illegal Immigration

An unmarked white bus pulled up to an empty park in New Jersey in the wee hours of the morning. Out came about 50 recently arrived migrants. They had no idea where they were and no place to sleep that night.

The bus wasn’t sent by the borderline governors. It was part of an ongoing operation by the federal government, which has been dropping off undocumented immigrants in towns and cities all across the United States for three years.

San Diego, a self-declared Sanctuary City, has about a thousand beds available to accommodate bused-in migrants for several days until they can find another place to live. But in the past two weeks, the city has received an estimated 7,800 immigrants. So, immigration agents are leaving people on the streets, at bus stops, and in train stations, angering local officials and worrying aid groups.

Fact: There are 65,000 undocumented immigrants in New York City. Mayor Adams is calling it a crisis. But that is only one-tenth of 1% of the 6.5 million undocumented immigrants that have come into the country since President Biden took office.

We hear about San Diego and New York. But the numbers they report are in the tens of thousands, not the millions. Which begs the question: Where are all the other people? Who’s taking care of them and what is it costing?

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The COVID Pandemic Was Bad? You Ain’t Seen Nothin’ Yet!

Kate Bingham 

Were you freaked out by the COVID-19 warnings and mandates? Did you trust Dr. Fauci? Were you angered by all the “fake news” suggesting that the “facts” issued from the WHO and the CDC were without merit? Did you feel virtuous in doing everything you possibly could to protect yourself, your family, and even the entire nation?

Was all that a great deal of fun for you?

If so, you are going to like what Kate Bingham, the former chair of the UK Vaccine Taskforce, is saying.

According to The Long Shot, a book she wrote about her experience fighting COVID 19, as well as interviews she’s given to promote the book, COVID-19 is small potatoes compared to the next pandemic that will soon be at your doorstep. I’m talking about “Disease X.” (I didn’t make that up.) It’s the name of a virus that she and others of her ilk (including Bill Gates) predict will break out in the near future. A virus 100 times worse than COVID-19.

“Imagine a virus as infectious as measles with the fatality rate of Ebola [67%],” she says. “Somewhere in the world, it’s replicating, and sooner or later, somebody will start feeling sick.”

Read more about it here.

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6ixtynin9 

A six-part series from Thailand, recently released on Netflix

Original release date (New York) May 20, 2005

6ixtynin9 is essentially a crime drama, but it’s much more than that. It’s breathless. It’s fascinating. It’s sometimes funny, then melancholy, then sad. And it’s beautifully made.

Perhaps what surprised me most about this six-part series is that it was scripted and produced in Thailand. Almost 20 years ago!

I don’t think I’ve ever seen anything quite like it. In some respects, it reminds me of Pulp Fiction. In others, a Mel Brooks movie.

If you are open to something new that will keep you entertained and thinking about all sorts of things you’ve never thought about before, check out 6ixtynin9.

Minor Caveat: It’s helpful if you have some familiarity with Thailand and Thai culture.

You can watch the trailer here.

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Quick Bites: Bernard Arnault Did What?, Freddie DeBoer on Weaponized Introspection, Millionaires on the Move, Golf & Automatic Weapons, and Another Award for Rancho Santana

Bernard Arnault 

  1. No. I don’t believe it! Bernard Arnault, who might be the richest man on earth, is being investigated for money laundering in France. Specifically, he’s suspected of trying to conceal an investment in a $13 million asset. What’s going on here? Who could believe that he would do such a thing? Click here.
  2. Who gives a shit? Freddie deBoer on white men talking about why other white men should “check their privilege.” Click here.
  3. Where are all the millionaires going? When the super-rich relocate, they tend to go where they think they’ll have the best lives as rich guys. Their top concerns are safety, lifestyle, taxation, and economic freedom and opportunity. That said, here are the countries projected to get the most millionaires in 2023.
  4. Golf and automatic weapons? What’s going on? For three weeks in a row, Chicago police have found loaded weapons in cars parked out of Topgolf – a fancy, family friendly sports center in the quiet, suburban town of Naperville. Click here.
  5. From Condé Nast Traveler: Top 20 Resorts in Central America. Rancho Santana came in 4th. Click here.
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From MG re my essay in the Oct. 3 issue: 

“Your essay ‘How to Be a Conservative, Part II’ hit home with me.

“My wife and I have been together a very long time by today’s standards. We met at 18 and are now in our late 40s. In the early years of our partnership, I found her dad taciturn and scary. And her mum a hippy-dippy, card-carrying socialist who also had a nice, well-meaning side-hustle in judging other people’s lives and getting in their business!

“How things change.

“These are two of the most important people in my life. Both, in separate ways, have guided me through decisions, been there at the coalface when it was required, offered perspective when it was in short supply, and modeled how you go through life properly when you’re a few stages further along. Perhaps more so than my own parents.

“They are not just my go-to fonts of wisdom, they are true friends. And I would probably have retched in my mouth at the thought of that 20 years ago!

“I used to rail against the fact that my wife’s family were outliers, living and interacting like most families do in the non-Western world. SO MANY bloody birthday parties and family dinners! What a drag!

“Now it’s one of the aspects of my life I cherish the most.”

From DM re what I’ve been saying about financial conflicts of interest in the medical industry: 

“As someone who’s been in the medical industry for almost 40 years, I can attest to the enormous effect the big drug producers and surgical tool manufacturers have over the ordinary practitioner.

“The most unethical aspect of it all is that Big Pharma influences the studies that result in ‘best practices’ protocols, which result in a severe pressure to follow a recommended drug or surgical procedure that many doctors would otherwise avoid.”

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Creatures of habit… 

This is hilarious even if you don’t know the backstory – which is that the dog’s previous walker always stopped at this pub for a pint.

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